Sunday I did not go to Church. As per my Lenten sacrifice - I am not beating myself up too greatly. I just wasn't feeling it.
Maybe it was the medication that I put myself back on that has me feeling like a zombie. Maybe it was the vendors at the blasted swap meet that goes on in the college behind us. At 6:00 am sharp, you could hear the constant clanging of metal as the vendors set up their sites. The time changed and my body was screaming "IT'S ONLY 5 AM" even though the clock told a different story. Maybe it was the fact that after being so abruptly awoken, I was embattled with my son's dad. Maybe it was all of the above. All I know is that my spirit was low and I wasn't going.
The fact of the matter is that because of all of those reasons- I SHOULD HAVE GONE. It is the only time during the week I actually get to do something for me. I feel better after the service.
I was having a crisis of faith.
I get these from time to time. I had always said that religion is a drug for the masses. You can take any situation and justify it as God's will. When I mixed up my prescription on Friday and ended up taking a full dose of the anti-depressant that I have been off of for way too long instead of the pain pill for my headache - was that God's way of telling me to get back on them or an honest mix up?
I have a very hard time accepting things on "faith". I need tangibles. I need to see it to believe it, or feel it to know it's there; so telling me "Ask and ye shall receive" is a hard pill for me to swallow. Where was God when I was praying to get my out of my miserable marriage? Where was he when I was sleeping in a cold weather shelter being berated by a homeless tweeker because I wouldn't eat the food? Where was he when I was living in a transitional shelter away from my son for 3 months?
I know He has a plan for me. I just wish I understood it. I have a hard time deciphering between HIS will and my free will. Do I continue to end up with my ex even platonically because I am a glutton for punishment or because I am meant to be with him? Am I meant to be so miserable because it is a test of strength or I am just a miserable person? Am I stuck at this job I hate because it is where I am supposed to be or am I just that bad of an interview? I just don't know.
All I do know is that I know very little. I will continue to pray as I do when I remember (I am still new to this you know) as I always do - thanking Him for his blessings. my child and asking only for the strength to get through this journey and to help me find happiness.
And I will return to Church this week; hopefully with my spiritual cup less empty.